There is a trend among men between 18 and 30-something to sport a 3-to-
5-day growth of stubble on their faces. They apparently believe that this is proof of a hefty amount of testosterone being produced by adequately-sized “nads.” I really don’t know to whom they think this look is attractive. What woman wants to have her face scraped by this wiry growth? To me, a woman of 70, who frankly likes beards, a man with stubble on his face and ‘fashionably’ tousled hair, looks like he has just come off a weekend drunk, or has spent a week camping and got lost. Perhaps he wants to look like he was held hostage by terrorists? All he needs is food in his teeth and redolent B.O. to complete this disguise.
I like “House”, but I wish he’d lose the brush! Stubble does not make a man look tough or heroic. In fact, most career military types are quite disciplined about the neat appearance of their hair and their personal hygiene. Actors who have boyish good looks into their 40’s, might start shaving with a hair-trimmer so that they can be considered for serious character roles or action movies, and for some, it works. But once they pass 40, as Brad Pitt has, the stubble makes them look tired and grubby, and they often look better in a moustache and well-trimmed beard.
Now, George Clooney, Noah Wyle, and Anthony Edwards could be excused for having a 5 o’clock (a.m.) shadow if they have been on duty in the ER for two days without rest. But Clooney, now nearing 50, can grow a luxuriant beard that any man would be proud of.
Dick Van Dyke and Donald Sutherland have worn beautiful white moustache & beard combos when they hit their 70’s. But now the cycle completes as you see the elder statesmen of the stage and screen shave their faces clean, so that they can look more youthful!
I visited a site that has for 10 years been devoted to everything a man (or woman) needs to know about growing, styling, and caring for a beard. Here is a link to the page on growing one: http://www.beards.org/grow.php










March 12, 2009 at 2:13 pm
I agree wholeheartedly and love the comment you made about the testerone and the ‘nads.
March 12, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Thanks, Judi! Glad you liked it!
March 13, 2009 at 9:34 pm
No,I am not a beard fan-now bald heads–I adore them.I had a boy friend for a few months and running my hands over his bald head ,to me, was s-o-o-o-sexy !!
It takes all kinds ,doesn’t it.
xxx Maggy
March 14, 2009 at 4:52 pm
Well, there is a saying about bald heads that some men like to quote: “God only made a certain number of perfect heads–and the rest, he covered with hair.”
August 4, 2009 at 7:49 am
I guess since women don’t fit under stabble statements, they always complaint about it. Stubble is sexy in most of men, and Brad Pitt’s smooth, pink and baby-butt skin is boyish to the bore. More “masculine” is every women in stardom with a little moustache like he’s wearing.
August 4, 2009 at 10:30 am
I don’t know if you are male or female, but I think that stubble only shows that a young man is old enough to grow a beard. Sexy? Not to me. Why would any girl or woman want to have her face scraped by scratchy stubble while she is kissing this guy? That happened to me once when I was young, and I never let it happen again. That’s why I say, “Grow it or mow it.” As for the moustache on some women, this is considered normal in some Latin cultures, and the hair only grows to a limited length and is soft, not scratchy. Many women bleach it, rather than get started with the chemicals, waxes, and shaving.